Why Women Are Wired to Crave Male Attention and Then Shamed For It

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How Women Can Reclaim “Emotional” to Their Advantage

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Stop Telling Women to Stop Apologizing

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The Unspoken Power of an Emergency Fund

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"I Suck With Money"

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Stop Charging 'Your Worth'

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The Problem With International Women’s Day

Today is International Women’s Day. The holiday was designed in the 1900s to draw attention to women’s welfare, but only recently drifted...

How to Deal with Jealousy in an Open Relationship

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Why the Idea of 'Losing Your Virginity' Is Harmful

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The Beginner’s Guide to Opening Up Your Relationship

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The Manic Pixie Dream Girl: Ditch the Trope or Subvert It

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You’re Wrong About Ice Queens

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The Surprising Impact of Birth Control on Attraction and Relationships

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Is it Pretty Privilege or White Privilege?

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When ‘Toxic Masculinity’ is Used Against Women

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The Things They Don’t Tell You About “Maybe” Motherhood

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Fran Hauser on Building the Career You Actually Want

Fran Hauser is one of the most inspiring women we know. Why? She spends her days helping women build better careers and businesses.

When Your Best Friend Can’t Get Pregnant (And You Have 4 Kids)

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The Myth of the 'Cool Aunt'

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Paxton Smith on Being Your Own Biggest Advocate

Paxton Smith, a reproductive rights activist, might be one of the most impressive 18-year-olds out there. In July of 2021, Smith risked...

The TikTok Comments Have A Lot to Say About Arranged Marriage

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What It's Like to Be Queer and Christian

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Unpacking the Hate on 'Astrology Girl'

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The Body Never Forgets Pain

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How Couples Therapy Challenged The White Supremacy in Our Marriage

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Could Cuckolding Affirm My Trans Identity?

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Why Bi-Erasure is a Health Threat

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Reconsider This: The South

“I could never live in the South.” Far too often, this statement tumbles from the lips of typically white, middle-class liberal folks...

Reconsider This: The Gendered Impact of Burnout

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Why The "Hot Lesbian" Trope is Problematic Online

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A letter from our Co-Founders

We’re building the Diem universe differently. We like to think of it as a steady march towards a realm where power does not equal masculinit

A Convo with BBG Ventures Partner Nisha Dua on How to Navigate Unchartered Territory

Nisha Dua has spent the last decade working in media, tech, strategy and law. She is a General Partner at BBG Ventures, which she co-founded.

A Convo with The Cut’s Social Media Editor On Giving Into Nothingness

Daise Bedolla is a Social Media Editor and Beauty Columnist for one of our favorite sites, The Cut. We caught up with Daise about how she fo

A Guide to Supporting Your Friend With an Invisible Condition

Because of my condition, I would lose my ability to stand straight. I would experience dense brain fog that made it impossible to see clearl

A Convo with Chef Guddia Singh on Transitioning Away from Corporate America

Guddia Singh is a classically trained chef, as well as a licensed wellness coach. We spoke to Guddia about nutrition myths, career pivoting,

A Convo with Christine Marzano on Taking a Seat at the Metaverse Table

Christine Marzano is a tech entrepreneur and former model. She's the founder and CEO of Bods, currently focused on using AI and gaming techn

I'm Sikh and Have Never Cut My Hair. Here's My Super Long Hair Care Routine.

I have super long hair. I'm not being dramatic—it is literally down to my ankles. I am Sikh, which means I have never cut my hair, not even

A Convo with A Nike Master Trainer on Recovery

By trade, Kirsty Godso is a Nike Master Trainer and health expert. She also describes herself as an energy dealer and coffee enthusiast.

A Convo with Filmmaker and Activist Paula Goldstein, The Coolest Person You'll Ever Meet

Paula Goldstein does a lot. She's a maternal health activist, founder, mother, former fashion editor, director, writer and producer.

Professionalism and Pronouns

Professionalism and pronouns, or, how my nonbinary identity struggled in the workplace, and what I learned. I had a summer job in an office.